Some common sense by @nounoumie

In this long period of patience - waiting for RK - craziness of doubters,nonnies and all the subdivisions of this fandom, it gave me moments of thinking. Manupulative media is handling the ' divide and rule ' and some people jump in their game. 

Let's be honest : the media is not the only one in misconduct.
Some 'fans' are really going to far. I can't call them fans anymore, but who am I to tell you if you're a good or a crazy non-fan. 
The thing is, as normal people with common sense question themselves, the others don't do that. That's the point. Trying to explain something to closed & crazy minds is not easy, waste of time. waste of energy. But they need to be stopped. They're killing the fandom and the goodwill of any celeb. 
As always, I try to see the positive side of it all : good fans become fewer but stronger. Anyway.... A few weeks ago, I read a book ( By Degrees by @ElleCasey ) I'm not going to tell you what's it all about. ( celebs and their life + romance ) It's very good. I recommend it. There is a moment where somebody explains 'fandom'. How she sees 'fans'. It struck me and I think about it quiet often. Well... I see a lot of similarities in this fandom, with a few 'fans'. They fit the description. It's sad and scary ... here’s some food for thoughts. 


"Their expressions are classic psycho-fan : mouths wide open in grins so big they make the girls appear unbalanced, eyes bugging out, arms flailing , hands fluttering, screaming... In any other situation , people doing these things would be locked away in a mental hospital.In this situation , we just smile and try to indulge them without giving them false hope. Such is the life of a celebrity.But some fans take their admiration to a whole other level that oversteps the bounderies between admirer and artist. They go from sane to insane in the blink of an eye, and there's almost nothing you can do about it but avoid them. They take innocent gestures as signs of mutual attraction and devotion. It's sad and scary at the same time. "

 I wish you all some common sense, humor and coffee.

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